Dear Kurnaen, Read your comment and wish you all the best for getting that promotion with good pay and perks. Persevere, have faith and you shall be rewarded sooner!
Mom not keeping too well. Worried about her delicate health these past few months. Age is not on her side too as she's almost 86 now.
There are demands on time but when I think of myself as a baby who depended on her time and what all she must have sacrificed to give me a life then what I do for her in return now is not even interest for that capital! I am glad I am able to give whatever care I can for her in her twilight days.
Cheer is what we can try to spread by sharing.
Mahalakshmi.
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Thursday, March 15, 2012
Friday, September 9, 2011
My Maternal Aunt's Centenary Birthday
My mother had two elder sisters. We called both our maternal aunts 'perima' as both were elder to our mother.
We used to prefix their names and called mother's eldest sister as 'school perima' because she was a school teacher by profession and another elder sister as 'aaspatri perima' because she was the head matron at the Government Hospital, Secunderabad. Aaspatri in Tamil means hospital.
It is school perima's birthday today (9th September).
School perima was very close to our family as she was to other relatives. She had married and was childless. She had to leave her matrimonial home due to some unavoidable circumstances. She was educated up to 10th Standard in those days.
My grandfather was a visionary even in the late 1920s. He wished to see his daughters financially independent and did everything possible to make them so.
He took my school perima to Benares to educate her further. She passed some exams in Hindi from the Benares University and joined as a teacher in the Keyes Girls' High School, Secunderabad. She worked for a record 3 and odd decades until she retired. She was a very dedicated teacher. She used to take special classes for the weaker students during lunch hours so that they could somehow pass their exams and these classes were for free.
Her methods of teaching arithmatic was quite unique in those days. She would bring leaves, twigs, burnt match sticks, dry tamarind seeds into the class room to teach students addition, division, fractions, subtraction by actual demonstrations.
Apart from all this she was a kind and humble human being. It was rare for her to say negative things about others. She would mention any positive trait even of the people who used to criticize her relentlessly. She was our own Mother Theresa.
After her retirement, she settled down with my eldest sister's family at Kalpakkam to help looking after my sister's young children while my sister pursued her career actively as an engineer. Hers was a selfless act. No conditions were attached to any help that she offered others. She would account for every single paisa and never kept anything for herself when entrusted with money for household expenses. She got her pension and had that rare self-pride in not touching other's money for whatever reason. On the other hand she used to help others with her money.
I could go on and on about her life of sacrifice for all our families. So many incidents of sacrifice come to my mind that I could write a whole book on her life. She has earned our love and respect for eternity and occupies a very, very special place in our hearts. We salute her and always remember her each day for something or the other.
This is her centenary birth year. She died at a ripe old age 87 years. A life well lived for herself as well as in the service of others.
Perima, wherever you are, you still lead us on the right path to this day. You were a living example of the joy we get in helping others unconditionally.
May your soul continue to guide and bless us.
Mahalakshmi.
We used to prefix their names and called mother's eldest sister as 'school perima' because she was a school teacher by profession and another elder sister as 'aaspatri perima' because she was the head matron at the Government Hospital, Secunderabad. Aaspatri in Tamil means hospital.
It is school perima's birthday today (9th September).
School perima was very close to our family as she was to other relatives. She had married and was childless. She had to leave her matrimonial home due to some unavoidable circumstances. She was educated up to 10th Standard in those days.
My grandfather was a visionary even in the late 1920s. He wished to see his daughters financially independent and did everything possible to make them so.
He took my school perima to Benares to educate her further. She passed some exams in Hindi from the Benares University and joined as a teacher in the Keyes Girls' High School, Secunderabad. She worked for a record 3 and odd decades until she retired. She was a very dedicated teacher. She used to take special classes for the weaker students during lunch hours so that they could somehow pass their exams and these classes were for free.
Her methods of teaching arithmatic was quite unique in those days. She would bring leaves, twigs, burnt match sticks, dry tamarind seeds into the class room to teach students addition, division, fractions, subtraction by actual demonstrations.
Apart from all this she was a kind and humble human being. It was rare for her to say negative things about others. She would mention any positive trait even of the people who used to criticize her relentlessly. She was our own Mother Theresa.
After her retirement, she settled down with my eldest sister's family at Kalpakkam to help looking after my sister's young children while my sister pursued her career actively as an engineer. Hers was a selfless act. No conditions were attached to any help that she offered others. She would account for every single paisa and never kept anything for herself when entrusted with money for household expenses. She got her pension and had that rare self-pride in not touching other's money for whatever reason. On the other hand she used to help others with her money.
I could go on and on about her life of sacrifice for all our families. So many incidents of sacrifice come to my mind that I could write a whole book on her life. She has earned our love and respect for eternity and occupies a very, very special place in our hearts. We salute her and always remember her each day for something or the other.
This is her centenary birth year. She died at a ripe old age 87 years. A life well lived for herself as well as in the service of others.
Perima, wherever you are, you still lead us on the right path to this day. You were a living example of the joy we get in helping others unconditionally.
May your soul continue to guide and bless us.
Mahalakshmi.
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