Problems and Solutions

Real time problems need real time solutions which answers are not so easy to find in books.

All the theory we may have learnt at school and college may not come in handy most times.

There is neither a right way nor a wrong way with problem solving.

The most successful way of solving a problem which I know of from experience, is to sound out very trusted and close ones for their opinion.
Their way of looking at the same problem may differ. They could offer a third dimension.
A via media solution could then be worked out after hearing them out patiently.
80% of opinions may not work out, yet when opinions are sought the sense of participation itself is the reward (and a learning experience). This is the first step.

When a solution is actioned, one has to wait for the results to show. This is the second step.
With time everyone settles down to hear and being heard.
The best solution may not work out in practical terms.
The leader among the group invariably emerges. He or she may be young or old. It's the problem solving ability which has to be respected.

We get to read about such instances in our ancient texts where rishis and yogis engage in 'tarka' (holding healthy arguments or discussions with mutual respect, to arrive at the right answer). All these wise men have been known to respect each others' opinions or views even though they may prefer to strongly, but respectfully, disagree with each other! What an ideal situation!!

Cut back to the modern age where one hears more often than not, "Tarkam pannade. Naan solratha kel", (meaning, don't argue, just do as I say). Lot depends on who is saying this.
If the person who says this, happens to be a wise and an experienced one, its better to follow his advice.

Most times, experience has won hands down over knowledge of theory, combined with little or no practical experience. Perhaps because 'experience' has tread the path long time back and knows which pitfalls to avoid and how best to safeguard 'or' because of learning through other people's 'experience'!

Mahalakshmi.